Wednesday, June 3, 2009

First Date Sex... LOL J/K

Ok I recently noticed that we haven't recieved a large female support system on this blog like I expected so I asked a couple friends why they thought that was and they simply told me I wasn't making any unisex blogs or blogs that females could comment on so i figured now is the time. What I've noticed over the years is that your first impression with females is a lasting one so I wanted to know your ideas for a good first date or first meeting. What do you look for in a guy or what do you look at first? Funny or more serious conversations? And are you opposed to first date sex and if so why? Do you kiss on first date? And can you really blame it on the alcohol?????

My Suggestiongs for Dining:
  1. Morton's Steakhouse
  2. Benihanas
  3. Brio
  4. J. Alexanders
  5. The Melting Pot......... Now you tell me some

3 comments:

  1. First impression's are def IMPORTANT! The first thing i look at is your mouth, if your teeth are messed up that is a automatic NEGATIVE! The other thing i look at is shoes, if your shoe game is WACK that is def. another NO, thats only because your shoes is def. the root of your outfit, and it definatly a refelection of your style and how well you keep yourself together! After that if you pass the first two IMPORTANT impressions and make it to a first date the best spots are:

    1. Binihana's
    2. McCormik && Shmick's
    3. A nice bar && Grill to break the ice

    While at a date i personally would like the conversation to be a little more jokeing then on the serious side, having a fun and humerous personality is a MUST MUST MUST if you dont have that i personally will be bored and lose intrest for you, BUT if you do have a good personality then that is good, after having a jokein side in the first part of the date you can move to the serious conversations now that you know a little about them. After the date i think that you should take your date straight home, going inside your dates house is not coo, it tells them that you might want "more", and wasnt content enough with a good date. Also NO kissing on the first date, SOOOOOO NOT classy!! Simply because your opening the (door) In the simplest way! And the number one rule NO FIRST DATE SEX! YOUR DIRTY IF YOU DO simply because you know NOTHING about that person's body, and their not ur boyfriend/girlfriend....

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  2. First things that attract me to a guy, are his smile, his shoulders, his style, and his skin. I think good skin is a important quality in anybody. a man with smooth skin is just THAT NIGGA. lol

    but as far as a dining suggestion, i wouldnt chise benihanas for the first place, it needs to be more intimate, so that you can get to kno the person on a 1 on 1 level. my favorite first dinner date places were Bravos, and maggianos..

    as far as the conversation, i prefer a man thats really mature, so i want a serious conversation and a good laugh is fine too. but a convo thats all laughs makes me see him as a joke, i would rather hear him tell me about his goals and his passions, because i man with a Plan is always a keeper. nobody wants a funny couch potatoe. =]

    i dont beleive in kisses on the first date if im not in a relationship with the person. and if i do kiss them on the first date, it depends on how long ive been talking to them. bc kissing is intimate and should be shared with somebody u have feeligns for...

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  3. Oh wow i dont what to say you guys gave such great feedback thank you both for your responses and suggestions I definitely needed to hear or should I say see this because its always good to know what the ladies like lol. I totally agree and when first meeting someone I try to get to know them as much as I can without getting too personal. I really like to sit back and hear alot about the girl it seems as if girls are REALLY good at talking about themselves, dreams, asperations, etc. LOL I wonder if yall think Go-kart racing and putt-putt golfing is too manish? Or I could see myself planning a pinic while we just sit n talk and of course bring some type of music. Or what about the Art Museum?

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